Warning signs that you are dating a loser
That may be a scary thought and the options may seem limited.It is what the abuser wants you to believe, that you have no power.Next identify the emotions you experience from the abuse.
If you are in an abusive environment, the first step is to get out.
For those who are abused, it is important to remember, the abuse received seldom has anything to do with them. One of the hardest things to realize is one has little to no influence on making deep or lasting changes in the abuser.
Even if the abusers wants to change, they seldom want to put any real effort towards changing. They stick around hoping they can fix things and often end up blaming themselves for the state of the relationship.
To let go you must take action and to make the needed changes necessary to move on with your life.
Abuse tends to impede how we process thoughts and emotions.