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If you are a registered user, then you have a friends list.
If you uncheck "Enable Private Messages," but leave "Always Allow Friend PMs" checked, then only people who are on your friends list will be able to send you messages.
This article will demonstrate some of the various ways that you can keep your chat experience cool and calm, helping you chat with the people you want to talk to by blocking out some of the noise. There is a "Menu" button, indicated by a gear icon (depending on your screen size, you may have only the gear icon, or the text as well as the icon).
Click or tap that, then go to "options." There will be a "Private Messages" tab, the first one on the left.
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Perhaps you're not quite that tired of people yet, or you're holding out for an interesting stranger to come along and send you a compelling message, but you still want to sort out some of those you might consider undesirable.
You can leave private messages enabled, but check any (or even all, but then why leave private messages enabled? You may be a straight man or a lesbian, and interested primarily in sex chat, in which case you can check "block private from male users." You have the same option for female users, or "other users" (meaning those who have elected not to disclose their gender, or who do not feel that either option describes them adequately).
If unchecked, any incoming private message will come to the foreground.
This is enabled by default because its default setting is best for most people, but if you're waiting for an important message, and you've already got private messages from people you don't want to hear from blocked, you may occasionally want to uncheck this box.
Once you have both attempted to message each other, our chat software recognizes this, and, for the rest of both of your sessions, you each are on each others' "whitelist" -- a list people who are allowed to bypass the disabled private message setting for each other.